7 Ways To Drive Any Woman Wild

All the small things… remember that song?

Saucy word play aside, it really is the small things about you that make our pulse race. And it might not be what you think. Whether we’ve just started dating or we’re happily coupled up, here are seven times you drove us absolutely wild without even knowing it.

When you brushed past us at the restaurant

When we’re truly into you, all it takes it a small touch in public. Accidentally-on-purpose brush past us. Lightly graze our arm with your fingertips. Rest your hand on our lower back. Because we know what’s coming when we get home.

When you wore that cologne

We have absolutely no idea what it is, but you smell amazing. It’s like success and sophistication mixed with a whole heap of sexy. Wear it again. We’ll find our own way to thank you.

When you opened the door for us

In an era when chivalry is as hard to find as a seat in Starbucks, gentlemanly acts make us swoon. Yes, we’re strong and independent. But showing your noble side makes us feel safe and protected. And it’s sexy!

When you shared your fantasies with us

There’s nothing sexier than when you share your saucy confessions with us. It makes us see you in a whole new light and we feel closer to you knowing you trust us with your innermost desires. And it also makes us feel more comfortable sharing our desires with you.

When you looked at us across the room

Sometimes you look sexier from afar, glancing at us from across a crowded room and looking at us in that way.

When you wore a suit

Tailored. Smart. Sexy. Whether it’s for that important client meeting or a big interview, we love how you look in a suit. Any time. For any reason. Find a reason. Just…. YES.

When you gave back

“What’s that babe? You’re volunteering for the hospital foundation? We LOVE when you’re kind. Generosity is HOT.

Do you know what’s sexiest of all? The fact that you weren’t trying in these moments.

You were just being the best version of yourself, and you won us over. That’s all you need to do. It’s simple, confident and sexy.


More from Cheryl Muir – To read the first three chapters of Cheryl’s erotic crime thriller, Angel of the Night, click here 

This Is How Many Dates You Need To Determine Chemistry

Ever been on a fourth or fifth date with someone, only to realize that you’re having a hard time deciding where things are going? You need to tap into your chemistry.

Let me first explain to you very quickly what chemistry really is, so you can have a better understanding of what you need to do with a prosperous candidate. What we call “chemistry” sometimes takes time to develop. Chemistry is an exchange of DNA—a reaction we experience when someone is close by. This wonderful feeling can’t be controlled by our rational mind; it is given to us by nature and is activated by pheromones—the scented sex hormones that make us bond physically with someone just by smelling them. It’s that great! Sometimes the connection between two people starts up by being very strong but then dissipates (the flame burns out). Other times it takes more than one date for the vibe to appear—for the essence of this other person to take us over.

Here Is What I Want You to Think About When Going Out With Someone New:

  1. Give them three days. Go out with them three times. Don’t just give them one day or two—give them three. Let the hormones kick in.

  2. Listen and observe without putting your own thoughts, feelings, and desires into the equation.
  3. Follow your instinct, which means feel your feelings in your stomach. The first impression about what he or she says to you will be felt, and you will know it. Please, don’t rationalize or justify  harsher words. Men say exactly what they are thinking, usually. This also goes for women in their masculine energy. So you can have a better idea about what I am talking about, in the next chapter I will explain more about masculine and feminine energy and how they interact.

For now, let me show you a list of men (and women) who should avoid going out with more than once:

  1. If the guy is married.
  2. If the guy is going through a breakup (meaning he has been single for less than six months).
  3. If the guy has been separated less than a year—he is still grieving.
  4. If the guy has a girlfriend (more than a year)—he is officially in a relationship.
  5. If the guy travels a lot for work. Five days a week is not acceptable—he is married to his job.
  6. If the guy lives in another state—you are not compatible.
  7. If the guy tells you he is a player or has commitment issues—he is warning you.
  8. If you are having a cybernetic relationship. (You first need to meet the guy, see if there is chemistry, and see whether or not your body and his body like each other before building a castle in the air).
  9. If the guy is a coworker (please don’t mix work with romance), he most likely won’t last in the long run.
  10. If the guy doesn’t have a job to sustain himself

Please, don’t waste your precious time with someone who doesn’t have the time to invest in you and the relationship. Remember, in life, it is not who you attract but who you keep that matters. You are responsible for what you welcome and keep. Your experience is the result of what you think, say, and do.

This article has been extracted from my already self published ebook “ how to find the love of your life in three dates “