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How to Make 2018 The Year You Find Love

  • December 21, 2017
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  • Renee Slansky
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There is never a more exciting time, then the start of a year. It’s like we subconsciously associate a new year with a fresh start. The chance to build what we want and do it right this time.

And that’s just the thing, this year can be different from the rest, if you want it to. Finding love doesn’t have to be delayed any further if you are ready to put into place the steps necessary to make it happen.

If you want this year to be the year that marks a new season of victory in your love life, then here are some key steps to follow:

1: Get clear on what you want

The first step to reaching your ultimate goal, is having a clear idea of what it actually looks like. If we can visualize it, then we have a better chance of manifesting it. Be specific in the type of relationship and partner you want and need, so that you can identify it when it comes along.

2: Make a plan of action

After you have set some goals you need to practically work out how you will achieve them. It is effort that gets us moving and it is time, that eventually gives us the results we want.

Do you need to up your social skills? Do you need more love education? Do you need to let go of some baggage? What is blocking you from finding love and the relationship you deserve?

3: Consistency is the key

The trick is to not give up, even when you want to. You have to keep going even if you don’t see immediate results. Finding love isn’t always an instant process, but rather a journey of self-discovery.

4: Keep yourself accountable

If you are serious about having breakthrough this year, then you need to keep yourself accountable to that goal so you stay focused. There will be curve balls, distractions and disappointments so it’s important to remind yourself what you are working towards.

5: Stop putting off plans 

A lot of the reason why we stop getting results or breakthrough is because we base our actions on how we feel momentarily. If you want to make this the year you find love, you have to do what is required even when you don’t feel like it.

The only thing stopping you from making this the year you find love is yourself. So what will you choose to do to make it happen?

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Renee Slansky

Renee Slansky is an established Australian TV presenter, writer and professional blogger who’s love for romance and heart for women compelled her to start her online community www.thedatingdirectory.co . From a young age she started leading and counselling women and was often called on by strangers and friends for relationship advice. With no professional training but rather what she picked up in experience, teachings and observation, her writings offer a witty and relative outlook with practical advice on life and romance in the 21st century.

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